One fear I've never had is that I'd love a donor-conceived child any less than one with my own genetics. This might be a silly analogy but... I truly deeply love my snuggly 1.5 yr old cat, she has helped me through so much... when she fell 3 stories from my balcony at 6 months old and I thought I was going to lose her, the fear and emotions were immense... and she's adopted, not even the same species, and has fur! Love doesn't have anything to do with genetics. Plus, I'd carry the child for 9 months, my blood and DNA/RNA that surround the child influencing their own genetic expression, and my health and lifestyle during that 9 months influencing their future health for life.Yeah, I know exactly where Lewisville is...my husband taught there about a year ago! So sorry to hear the FET didn't work...I can't begin to imagine how excited you were and then how deflated you felt after. Also, it's scary to think a doctor caused any kinds of issues, especially something so life changing.