I know, it,s really typical and depends on lot of factors, but still looking for some suggestions, How Can I Write a Successful Blog and Get More People to Read It?
why not you can make first step to writing on someone's blog, if you writing on other's blog he also interested to writing on your blog also on this way you can make more connection.
Content is king. Write something helpful to others. After visiting your website, your audience get a new solution for their problem, which will attract more visitors.